Have you ever been asked a question: “Which is more important to you, girlfriend or job?” As a man, you need to work very hard. If you are dating a Chinese girl on-line, one day, you receive a letter from her, while due to your busy works schedule, you may not write back to her for many days. As a result, you find a letter from her the other day. She tells you that she feel very sad and even hurt that it took you such a long time to respond to her. She feels that you are not interested in her any more and her confidence for further communication is shaken. This might be happened to most of you, right?
As you may agree, the woman is emotional and sensitive, especially for those who are in love with someone. Several days might be not that longer for you. But for the lady, it could be long enough for her to worry about the possible result of this relationship.
As far as we can see, more and more people would like to find a Chinese girl. Considering this, here are some suggestions for you to show your lady that you really care about her.
When you have no time to write a long and emotional letter back to your girl, you may consider to send her a short note to tell her your situation and ask her not to worry about you, especially when you will be away for a long time. Please remember not to ignore her and let her alone.
Sometimes, you could also find a little time to chat with your lady. Though it might be a few minutes, your lady will feel moved when you come to see her. If you could even remember and notice what she wants, she will know that you really take an great interest in her.
What’s more, it is known that all women like the flowers. If you love the Chinese girl you are dating, sending her a bunch of flower or a small gift will be an important way to show your love to her.
Last but not the least, make an agreement to call her and set the time. Please be punctual and let her hear your voice, which will be a more direct way to know how you love with each other.
To sum up, it is your attitude to decide how this relationship develops. If you really care about the lady, you will find every way you could find to let her feel your love. So, cherish every chance you have and work out a nice relationship.