Chnlove Review: After years of dating American women and getting divorced with my American ex-wife, I decided to have a try with Chinese women by joining Chnlove. Firstly I would like to point out that women are women no matter which part of the world they are in. There are the good and there are also the bad too. However, speaking from my own experience, I believe that Chinese women do have certain good traits which are not commonly seen in American women, which make them more attractive to a guy like me.
Chnlove review: view on sex and intimacy
The basic problem with most western countries now, is that there’s no courtship any more, and no time to really get to know each other, which means a lack of communication. They just jump into bed too quickly. In contrast, Chinese women are generally much more conservative about sex. They are unwilling to be intimate with a man before they are pretty sure that he is suitable as a long-term partner. American women also like to use sex as a way to bargain, while Chinese women use sex as an expression of love.
American women tend to want the bad boy, while Chinese women want a man that can take responsibility and is willing to commit to a relationship. Speaking from my experience with American women, if you act like you could care less about marriage and are just out to get laid, most girls are pretty content to let you have your way. However, everytime I found a girl I really liked and tried to be a gentleman, I got dumped in a hurry.
Femininity and family values
With all due respect, I feel that many women in America have lost the art of being women and understanding men. A lot of American women hold themselves as the pure center of the relationship. They are needy and demanding, and have rigid and unrealistic criteria for men.
Chinese women and men for that matter think of the family as a unit. The good of the family is what matters over all. In the west, we are individualists and think of ourselves. Chinese women do make better mates because they come from more conservative and family oriented cultures where relationships and commitment are actually revered. They are highly sought-after by American guys for their wifely skills.They respect us, appreciate the affection we show them, and acknowledge our efforts to provide a better life. They take good care of the family and enjoys housework. Chinese women are comfortable in their femininity. As a male I am attracted to this. So treat them good with love and respect and you will come to know happiness and a way of life you will never have with an American woman!