Everything needs to be treated with sincerity if you want to make it successful, especially love.
I always hear complaints from my girl friends about their boyfriends not taking the relationship much seriously and feeling disappointed with the guy’s sincerity. Also some members of Chnlove have similar problems. Why is she keeping refreshing her profile when we have been talking for a long time and I think we’ve already been in a relationship? Is she connecting with many guys? Should I go on chatting with her? How do I know whether she wants to develop a relationship sincerely with me or not? Hundreds of questions have been asked in different ways but on the same topic, honesty and sincerity. Here are my points on it.
China Date Rule 1: Don’t judge & try to show more understanding.
China Women actually feel pressures to develop a relationship through Internet. Although there are materials supported that Chinese people become more open-minded than before, still disagreements and misunderstandings to the marriage with a foreigner are existing, like marriage for money. Frankly speaking, some China ladies grow up in a rich family and have her own career, so they do not base love on economy as some people say. They just appreciate guys from other countries and bravely step out with the hope of a happy marriage. Then the reason why these ladies keep refreshing profiles is the same as you tend to be connected with more than one girl and pick out the right one eventually. They want to get to know more guys and choose the most suitable one to be a life long partner. Chinese singles just look forward to love so badly. Once they make sure you are Mr. Right, she will love you with her whole soul and heart. So she really deserves your waiting and understanding.
China Date Rule 2: Let her know you really want to be with her.
On the other side, you should tell her what you feel for her. Once you open a profile and login in the online dating website, you definitely know you are going to find someone to spend the rest of your life with. And it is not that simple just by tapping the keyboard and clicking the mouse. You need to put a heart on it. These Asian women for marriage are still a little conservative in some way. They are not sure whether you have a feeling with her or just show friendliness and will hope guys tell his love to her first. Then you will have her attention and focus on you. Wonderful mutual effect. As a result, do remember that sincerity and understanding also play an important and irreplaceable position in love journey. Win your online love with sincerity and understanding